Monday, October 11, 2021

Mindfulness - Dr Sangeetha Madhu and Sanjhna Shetty

Take a minute to stop everything you are doing and focus on your breath. Are you able to stay still and focus on your breath? Can you tune everything out?

As simple as this activity sounds, most people will find it challenging to calm their minds for more than just a few seconds. Psychologists and physicians have turned to a practice called mindfulness which has helped people become calmer, more centered, and in turn, less stressed. Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn (1991) explains mindfulness as ‘paying attention in a particular way; on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.’

Mindfulness                                                                                                                                      

·         Mindfulness is one of the techniques in meditation, among others and can be performed in a formal or informal way

·         Mindfulness can be practiced anywhere and anytime as it requires the person to be completely aware and engaged in the here and now

·         Mindfulness can be practiced informally by engaging in daily activities with the intention of being mindful - for example, mindful eating, mindful conversations, mindful walking.

 

Research shows that meditation has proven beneficial for people to be mindful in their daily lives and activities. Although having significant differences, mindfulness and meditation can be woven together and incorporated into our daily lives.

 

How to be More Mindful

·         Be consciously present.

·         Use short mindful exercises- mindful breathing, concentration, walking mediation.

·         Practice mindful eating.

·         Sleep mindfully.

·         Being mindful in interactions.

·         Engage in activities mindfully.

·         Pause throughout the day- awareness of your body, releasing tension,

Benefits of Mindfulness

            According to the American Psychological Association, mindfulness is known to have certain empirically supported benefits-

Psychological-benefits

       Increased awareness of one’s mind

        Significantly reduced stress, anxiety, and negative-emotions

       Increased mental-flexibility and focus

       Decreased emotional-reactivity

Physiological-benefits

       Lowered blood-pressure

       Lowered levels of blood cortisol (a major stress hormone)

       Enhanced immune system functioning

       Greater resistance to stress-related illnesses such as heart disease

 

Being mindful is an important tool to enhance our well-being. An understanding that it can be practiced anywhere and in an informal environment is an added advantage. Keeping this in mind remember to be mindful the next time you feel uncomfortable, stressed, or simply when you want to check in with yourself.

References

Decosta, H. (2020, August 19). Mindfulness and Meditation: Understanding the Difference. Mindfulness Exercises. https://mindfulnessexercises.com/mindfulness-and-meditation-understanding-the-difference/

Naik, P., Harris, V., & Forthun, L. (2013). Mindfulness: An Introduction. EDIS, 2013(8). https://doi.org/10.32473/edis-fy1381-2013

Schultz, J. (2020, July 24). 5 Differences Between Mindfulness and Meditation. PositivePsychology.com. https://positivepsychology.com/differences-between-mindfulness-meditation/

 

 

Friday, October 1, 2021

Self-Compassion - Dr Sangeetha Madhu and Sanjhna Shetty

According to the American Psychological Association, “Self-compassion is a construct derived from Buddhist thought and entailing a non-critical stance toward one’s inadequacies and failures.” Being kind to oneself, confronting insecurities, and embracing one’s good bad and ugly is an essential aspect of self-compassion. We live in a society where self-criticism is regarded as a factor of growth whereas showing warmth and kindness to ourselves signifies weakness.

Three elements of Self-Compassion

Self-compassion is often interchangeably used with self-esteem. While self-esteem is related to the evaluation of oneself. self-compassion has to do with self-acceptance, even when there is failure. While engaging in the practice of self-compassion, there are three elements consistently present:

1.      Self-kindness: As the name implies, self-kindness refers to showing oneself the same amount of kindness one would show others

2.      Common Humanity: Acknowledging that each one of us is a human and being human is not an easy job

3.      Mindfulness: Observing one’s experiences with equilibrium state of mind. This element believes in being non-judgmental as well as accepting pain before being compassionate

Ways to develop self-compassion

Being gentle, kind and accepting of who we are can be a daunting task to some of us. To understand that one is capable of growth and is full of potential is a process. Following are some of the ways to develop self-compassion:

1.      Learning to forgive oneself and not being too critical about one’s mistakes

2.      Having a growth mindset which involves embracing challenges instead of avoiding them and believing in oneself

3.      Expressing gratitude and being generous, in a mindful way .

4.      Being aware and present lessens self-judgment and increases self-compassion

5.      Giving oneself the permission to not be perfect all the time

It is vital to remember that one deserves the same warmth and affection that they easily provide others. Self-acceptance is the first step towards self-compassion and recognising oneself as only human who naturally tends to make mistakes may help one look at themselves in a kinder way.

 

References

Definition and Three Elements of Self Compassion | Kristin Neff. Self-Compassion. Retrieved 14 May 2021, from https://self-compassion.org/the-three-elements-of-self-compassion-2/.

Help, G., Professionals, F., Listed, G., Help, G., Professionals, F., & Therapist, F. et al. Self–Compassion. Goodtherapy.org. Retrieved 14 May 2021, from https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/issues/self-compassion.

5 Steps to Develop Self-Compassion & Overcome Your Inner Critic. PositivePsychology.com. Retrieved 14 May 2021, from https://positivepsychology.com/self-compassion-5-steps/.