Friday, June 19, 2020

Stress Management - All in the Mind - Dr Sangeetha Madhu and RK Shivani


Stress Management


Stress is not what happens to us. It's our response TO what happens. And RESPONSE is something we can choose.
Maureen Killoran


Stress is a part of everyday life. In small quantities, stress is good; it can motivate you and help you become more productive. However, too much stress or a strong response to stress can be harmful.

Stress:  Can either help us with challenges and problems or make them many times worse.  The effect stress will have depends on how we handle or view the situation.
·       Handling stress depends on us: Recognizing the stress
·       Understanding where it is coming from- Sources
·       Understanding our stress management options

Recognizing the stress
What are the signs of stress?
 We all experience stress differently in different situations. Sometimes you might be able to tell right away when you're feeling under stress, but other times you might keep going without recognizing the signs.
 Stress can affect you both emotionally and physically, and it can affect the way you behave. Some signs include the following
·       Tension  Irritability
·       Inability to concentrate 
·       Feeling excessively tired
·       Trouble sleeping
·       increased blood pressure
·       Difficulty breathing
·       Stomach upset
·       Sweating palms
·       Tight muscles that may cause pain and trembling


Sources of Stress
Identify the sources of stress in your life: Stress management starts with identifying the sources of stress in our life. To do so we need to look closely at our habits, attitude and excuses. Until we accept responsibility for the role we play, our stress levels will remain out of our control.

We can experience stress from four basic sources:

The Environment – The environment can challenge you with intense and competing demands to adjust. Examples of environmental stressors include weather, noise, crowding, pollution, traffic etc.

Social Stressors – we can experience multiple stressors arising from the demands of the different social roles we occupy, such as parent, spouse, caregiver, and employee. Some examples of social stressors include deadlines, financial problems, presentations, disagreements, demands for your time and attention, separation,  divorce, and co-parenting.

Physiological – Situations and circumstances affecting our body can be experienced as physiological stressors. Examples of physiological stressors include illness, aging, giving birth, accidents, lack of exercise, poor nutrition, and sleep disturbances.

Thoughts – Your brain interprets and perceives situations as stressful, difficult, painful, or pleasant. Some situations in life are stress provoking, but it is our thoughts that determine whether they are a problem for us


Stress management options
·       Identify sources of stress in our life and accept responsibility
·       Avoid unnecessary stress
·       Alter the situation If we can’t avoid a stressful situation, try to alter it. Do what we can to change things so the problem will not occur in the future.
·       Accept things you can’t change , Some sources of stress are unavoidable, acceptance may be difficult but in the long run it’s easier to accept than to rally against things we can’t change.  Expect ongoing change; understand the stages
·       Laughter
·       Positive thinking
·       Deep breathing
·       Stretching
·       Exercise
·       Healthy diet
·       Maintain a positive attitude
·       Try to maintain a positive attitude and minimize negativity
·       Avoid complaining and criticizing
·       Seek the visiting Psychologist and Counsellors  support.

Dr Sangeetha Madhu , a clinical psychologist and Leadership expert & Shivani RK presenting articles related to well being, leadership/personal development, cognitive mastery, positive emotions, building resilience, and relationships.




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